Just Thinking is my newsletter on leadership, performance and doing hard things well.
Each message includes a 3-Minute Action designed to help readers take charge, rather than merely take interest.
Newsletter Archive
#57: Hanes vs Stulberg
“Go all in, get it done, take the learnings, and know when to walk away.”
#56: No Man’s Land
“It’s very easy to bond with your team over a shared moan. It’s a lot harder to champion something you didn’t pick.”
#55: Preparation – The 8th Wonder of the World?
“Don’t wait for a reason to prepare. Prepare so that when the reason arrives, you’re ready.”
#54: The Right Resistance
“Not everything hard is worth doing. Not everything easy is worth avoiding.”
#53: Confidence
“We all think we know confidence when we see it. I’m not so sure.”
#52: The Next Decision
“Stop expecting your next decision to do the job of your final decision.”
#51: What’s Big In Your World
“Just because something feels obvious to you doesn’t mean it’s obvious to everyone else.”
#50: Peptides, Lego & Life
“The same building blocks can create very different outcomes.”
#49: Whoops, It’s Monday.
“Sometimes breaking the streak is the thing that proves what actually matters.”
#48 Pause. It’s Mother’s Day
“Smart Toughness isn’t only about doing hard things. It’s about remembering why they matter.”
#47: Start Small. Just Don’t Stay There
“Don’t confuse starting small with the fear of staying small.”
#46: The Words You Use Daily
“Clarity isn’t just about goals. It’s about the meaning behind the words you use every day.”
#45: Your Life Code: The Rules You Choose To Live By
“Most people are living by a code… they’ve just never written it down.”
#44: The Signals We’ve Engineered Away
“If you always remove the signal, you lose the skill.”
#42: The Circle of Now
“We’re impatient with what takes time… and patient with what shouldn’t.”
#41: How Ice Ages Actually Happen
“Nothing dramatic happens… until everything has already changed.”
#40: Shirts, T-Shirts & No Shirts
“Context has a real influence on how we experience ourselves. Paying attention to it is often the first step toward understanding it.”
#39: A Smart Toughness Lens on Emotion and Action
“Before discipline comes emotion.”
#38: Are You Making Life Easier, or Harder, Than It Needs to Be?
“We don’t just live in environments. We respond to them.”
#37: The Fastest Way to Ruin an Average
“A small effort still counts. A zero doesn’t.”
#36: The Question That Calls You on Your BS
“Clarity is rarely the problem. Courage usually is.”
#35: Why Feel Matters
“What gets measured matters, but not everything that matters can be measured.”
#34: Beware the Ego Lifts
“Effort compounds so much more when you use the entire movement.”
#33: Progress You Almost Miss
“Most of us are better at waiting for change than we are at noticing it.”
#31: Showing Off vs Showing Up
“Likes can start the work but they rarely sustain it.”
#30: Why Most Change Works Gradually
“The goal isn’t to become someone new, it’s to work better with who you already are.”
#28: A Simple Question Before You Switch Off
“Sometimes one good question does more work than a dozen goals.”
#27: Your Next Action Lives Independently From the Last
“Legendary moments are built on the courage to go again, not the perfection of getting it right first time.”
#26: The Courage to Step Back Into the Arena
“The fall doesn’t kill you, it’s the sudden stop. So what if you don’t stop?”
#25: It Takes Longer Than You Think
“Some timelines only make sense once you’re in them.”
#24: The Hidden Power of Brevity
“Clarity isn’t just about being understood. It’s about knowing what you actually mean.”
#23: The Slow Poison of Patience
“Sometimes toughness isn’t about holding on. It’s about holding back.”
#22: The Uneasy Beauty Of Being In Transit
“Sometimes the most uncomfortable places remind us we’re still moving.”
#21: The Subtle Weight of Standing Still
“Physics calls it inertia. In life, we just call it being stuck.”
#20: How To Read The Moment Before You Quit
“Effort without awareness becomes friction. Eff-it without reflection becomes avoidance.”
#19: Two Letters That Change Everything
“You’ve been here before. That’s your advantage.”
#18: Bounce-Back-Ability and The Power of Quiet Streaks
“The streaks that shape us most aren’t loud. They’re the ones we keep when no one’s counting.”
#17: Performing. Producing. Participating.
“Life isn’t meant to be a performance, it’s meant to be an experience.”
#16: Strength Without Compassion Isn’t Strength
“The world doesn’t need tougher people. It needs people who are tough and tender.”
#15: The Hawthorne Effect in Action
“It’s easy to show up when someone’s watching. The real test is what happens when they’re not.”
#14: The Gift of Feeling Out of Place
“The gap between who you are and who they are is not a void, it’s your stage.”
#12: When Process Becomes an Excuse
“You don’t need to be told you’ve earned it. You need to decide you have.”
#11: The Fine Line Between Winning and Losing
“Get the balance right, and confidence sharpens you. Get it wrong, and it blinds you.”
#10: Action First. Feeling Follows. Meaning Stays.
“You can’t think your way into acting better, but you can act your way into thinking better.”
#9: Commitment Is The Filter For Greatness
“True commitment isn’t forged in the moment, it’s revealed by it.”
#8: The Hidden Cost of Capacity & Capability
“The more you can do, the more intentional you need to be.”
#7: Vertical vs. Horizontal Relationships
“When you stop performing and start connecting, you’ll find the energy you need to thrive.”
#6: When Grit Becomes A Liability
“Toughness is knowing when discomfort becomes damage, and having the courage to listen.”
#5: Sweat Is Your Secret Weapon
I’m 11 days post shoulder surgery, and I’ve finally been cleared to work up a sweat again.
#4: You’re No Hero. Take Some Time Off.
In The Office, there’s a scene where Dwight Schrute tries to get promoted by showing his boss a spreadsheet proving he’s never taken a single day off.
#3: I Could If I Wanted To…Yeah, But You Didn’t…
It’s time to call ourselves out. Me included.
#2: Escaping Vagueness Purgatory
Before you read any further, grab a pen and paper…I’ll wait.
#1: What Kind Of Freedom Are You Chasing?
So getting these newsletters rolling has taken a while. I could list a dozen “reasons”, but the truth is fear has been holding me back.